The First Journey....part 1

Traveler's Prayer 

May the road rise beneath your wheels
May the miles reel merrily away
May the nights and days dance by
So that you come home the sooner to family and friends
So that you love the road for bringing you home
So that your smiling face is seen again.

- Meical AbAwen

I know, I know.  I should have been posting.  The horrible part is the first time I hit the road, I forgot my charger for my laptop.  I suppose I could have done all this from my phone, but really, it's a pain in the ass to not be able to type.

This has been quite an adventure.  There's a lot of stuff that I think I could say here.

No epic adventure is static.  There must be a level of difficulty for progression, a level of movement for good storytelling, and other elements to draw people in.  I hope to be a good storyteller for you, gentle reader.  

For those that do not have my personal Facebook, they will now understand that for the beautiful sights that I have seen and all the pictures I have posted, that most people do not know the negative side of the stuff that happened to me.  So I'll try to relay the story.

My adventure started at the Greyhound in downtown Houston.  As I made my way through the terminal, I looked back to see my two beautiful children, my husband, and one of my most cherished friends waving goodbye to me.  It was heart-wrenching, that in the building full of strangers, I cannot remember any details of faces, places, or people.  Just my tribe and their melancholy smiles waving me on.  Everything else is a wash of vague color.

12 hours on a bus to Oklahoma City, Oklahoma.  That trip was quiet, with an occasional picture dotting the scene.  Mainly, I listened to the music my friend had put on my phone.  Sitting out the ride wasn't important - it was when I got there that the adventure really started getting underway.

The bus arrived a little late.  It was past midnight before I departed the bus, gathering the large bags that I was told to pack in detail.  I don't know if you've ever experienced the Oklahoma bus stop, but at night, it can be a rather scary place for someone who's lived a sheltered life.  And...as much stuff as I have done, sometimes when places seem low-income or badly in disrepair, it can make me nervous.

So here I was, in the middle of some place I had never been, limited on my funds, and utterly without anyone I knew for miles.  I tried to follow the instructions on the paper.  It said that after 9 (it was well after, obviously), I should call a cab and go to a specific hotel, the company would reimburse the fare.

I called a cab, the one that was suggested, and asked to be taken to the hotel.  The taxi driver assured me he would be there very soon, he was close by.  With that done, I lugged my two large duffle bags (one had wheels, thankfully) outside to sit on a bench and wait.

A number of people were milling about outside.  Strange-looking people do not frighten me, having been employed as a piercer and tattoo artist a while ago.  It is the elements which surround those people can, however, cast very negative light and leave the mind to wander about all that can go wrong.  At the waystation in Dallas, one bus hopper came in crying that she had gotten mugged.  So...you can imagine that my tension was ratcheted up taught.

As I sat on a bench outside, waiting for the taxi, an older black man came up and sat down next to me.  I would assume he is homeless, and even in that assumption, I didn't bother to find facts.  The man was salt and peppered, his dark chocolate skin with lines etched like time wearing through canyons.  Weathered, you could say - beautifully so, with years of laughter etched into the corners of his mouth and his eyes.  He asked for change, and I gave him the change I had on me, plus a bag mostly full of butterscotch candies.  He delighted in the candies, saying they were his favorite, and he sat with me for a time as I listened quietly to his monologue.  This would be a recurrent theme for the past six weeks.

As my taxi came, I thanked the man for his company, patted him on the shoulder, scooped up my things and left.

The taxi man was pleasant as well.  He was perhaps a little older than me, and I would not exactly place him as mexican, more latino.  He was very calm, very soft-spoken and was kind enough to help me with my baggage.  The trip was short, he deposited me in front of a seedy-looking hotel, and left.

I went to the front glass doors of the hotel's lobby, which was locked.  There were a few straggles outside as well here, and I hesitated to be exposed to the night and the things which moved in the night.

A gentleman with a turban unlocked the door and let me in.

I introduced myself, asked about a voucher from my company, and the man gave me a bored look.  "We haven't had the contract for that company for six months," he replied.  

"Are you kidding me?"  I was incredulous.  Here I was, following my directions.

"Nope.  Try the Red Roof Inn.  I believe they have it now."

Shit.

During this short exchange, since the door had been open, a younger guy in a wife beater walked in.  Overhearing our exchange, he turned to me and said, "Hey...I'm headed that way anyway.  I could give you a lift and you wouldn't have to pay a taxi."

Every nerve in my body thrummed 'Danger'.  The guy in the turban eyeballed me.

Smiling brightly, I said, "Thank you so much, but really, I need to take a taxi - I have to keep receipts because my company will reimburse me."  Before he could protest, I whipped out my phone and called the taxi back, explaining what happened.  

He paused on the phone.  "Stay inside," he said very seriously. "That's not a great hotel and I have another fare at the moment, but I'll be right back to get you."

So, I got to call my cherished friend Silver, who'd seen me off at the bus station.  As an insomniac, he was kind of the perfect person to talk to (although, I have to admit, there was probably more whining than anything else that night).

The taxi comes up, I get off the phone, hop into the taxi, and explain about the Red Roof.  It is only two long city blocks away.  Maybe.  The cabby takes me there and drops me off, tells me there's no charge.  Totally awesome.  With great relief, I go into the hotel and explain about me, the company, my voucher for the stay.  The woman behind the desk makes several phone calls.  The time is now pushing 1:30 a.m.

There is no voucher for me.  At this point, I'm about to get total meltdown.

I call the cabby again, then call up Silver.

Silver, amazing wordsmith, rogue and wizard (and I say that with much affection, those words actually having meanings which are beyond the words themselves, but summed up in my own slang language, so to speak), was kind enough to speak with me, keep me calm, and even make suggestions to get me through the night.  Again, in my head, all the dangers kept playing out and the panic, sheer panic, of being stranded in a town with little money, no one I know, hundreds of miles from home was bubbling beneath the surface.  And here was Silver, smoothing the waters, keeping me calm.

(Now, some of you might wonder why I wouldn't call my husband, the mighty Hunter, but being that he actually sleeps and requires eight hours a night to function properly, this wasn't the time and place in my mind.)

The cab driver shows up again and takes me to a third hotel.  He firmly insists that he's waiting until I find my voucher at the front desk this time, the Ramada, and the desk clerk does.  I go outside, tip the cabby 10 bucks because he hasn't charged me for the last two rides, reassure him I'm okay, and he leaves.  When I get back to the front desk, the man tells me that I have a roommate and gives me a key.

Shit.  Again.

"You mean to tell me," I start, "that it's almost 2:00 in the morning, and I have to wake someone up to get ready to sleep, to be up again at 6?"

Yeah, kinda pissed off at that.  Pissed off they couldn't just spring for another room, that someone's going to be mad that they're woken up, and I had to try to get ready for bed and get ready to wake up, cutting someone else's sleep short.

And so I go upstairs, hauling all my shit, and start knocking on the door to the room I was assigned.  Tried the key card I was given.  It didn't work.

Now....I can knock like a cop.  But I already had great reservations about waking someone up, so I knocked politely.  About three times.  I left my stuff in the stairwell, went downstairs and told the clerk that the key wasn't working and the person wasn't waking up to the knock.

The man comes upstairs, knocks some more, then leaves again.  At this point, standing outside the door, I hear shuffling.  Someone is awake behind the door.  I was frustrated beyond belief.  The clerk returns, giving me a second set of keys, and puts me up in a room by myself.  I am so exhausted, it doesn't take too long to fall asleep.

During the week I spent in orientation, I got to know the person who wouldn't open the door.  Being a trucker driver for another company on her own, she explained that her hesitation was due to the fact that could not see through the peephole, and she would not open doors for anyone, or on her truck for that matter, in the late hours of the night.  I couldn't begrudge her the thoughts on safety, and we hit it off splendidly.  After all that we did, the small tests and training, we were put up in the second place, the Red Roof Inn, to await our trainer drivers.  This place, of course, was not as nice as the first one.  But it was okay, we were on our way.

I did not have to wait long for my trainer to appear.  But really....that will be in another part of the story.